Just a Thought...

What's LOVE for most of us?

For some, It is a feeling of fulfillment. Feeling of being taken care of. Unexplainable feeling which one can say that they have contentment and happiness.

But is this really what LOVE is?

My thoughts about this... LOVE has a right timing of it's own to feel that contentment and happiness. Just like people's lives, it does have it's own ups and downs.

"It can't be asked, It must be given" Not all the time! Most of us are asking for it. If we don't ask for it, we won't have it. We should ask it from God through our prayers and for sure, He won't fail you and give you the love that is just right for you.

"It can't be cheated or else it is betrayed" but why do most people cheat on their love ones? Is it for fun? Is it to see if they are still attractive to others? Whatever their reasons maybe, the good thing about it is that they are still accepted after they cheated (lucky people). God is so good for He created FORGIVENESS. But this can't be happening all the time, coz if it does... Everybody will get to use on cheating everyone.

"It couldn't be bought, it wouldn't be Love" I agree with this one. Love isn't just a candy you can buy anywhere, anytime. You can definitely ask somebody to love you, but it's up to them to decide. You can't pay them cash to love you or show you that they cared. You may give someone everything they needed and wanted but you have to put in mind, that you can't & shouldn't expect anything in return. Coz that Lovin' feeling would be much more appreciated and fulfilling when it comes deep within the heart.

"Love should be cared for or else it will slip away" Everything in this world should be handle with care. Those expensive things you bought for yourself are given an extra special care, what's more if it is the one you love most. Yes, you are caring for them, but sometimes we need to give them an extra special treatment. If the word "spoil" is the correct term for it then be it. But sometimes, the care that we show them are misunderstood. It makes them feel suffocated. An everyday reminder makes them feel like you look at them as a fool. Consistent text messages and calls makes them feel like you don't trust them enough. But it isn't really what you want them to feel. You're just showing them that you care enough for them to stay and love you more.

Well, If you love someone, show it. Tell them and make them feel how much you love them everyday, for you'll never know if it is your last day or their last day on earth. Here are some suggestion on how to show your love or spoil them (These things won't make you a lesser person if you say or do this to someone):


1. Tell them that you love them by saying the three simple words "I LOVE YOU" sure it would mean everything to them.


2. Send them anything that would make them feel you care and make them think that you remember them. Flowers for some girls. Chocolates for every gender (everybody loves chocolate). Balloons, cards, cakes, pastries, any kind of food (as long as they eat those), coffee, tea, frappe, etc... (Anything you know that would make them smile)



3. Send them notes, text messages or email messages. But not just a forwarded messages, It should have something inside that would make them feel special. (sweet talks)


4. Hold and squeeze their hand. It's a simple gesture but sure to tickle their feelings.


5. Hug them. A tight hug would make them feel safe and protected.




6. Kiss them. A kiss on the forehead is not just for your granny. If you kiss someone on the forehead, it'll make them feel that you respect them. A kiss on the cheek is okay but most of us now are doing that with our friends and relatives, so it'll be better if you kiss your special someone differently. A kiss on the lips... This is the most fulfilling kiss you'll ever have. Whether it's a smack, torrid kiss or a french kiss. This kind of kisses brings electricity to the heart and soul. Sometimes, it helps to add more feelings towards the one who gave you that kiss. And it is sweet & memorable too.


7. Do not forget to say Thank you. This way they will feel that you appreciate everything that they are doing from the smallest thing up to something that is out of this world. People stays when they feel appreciated and they become cold and just walk away when they are taken for granted.




We sure to have our own ways of showing our Love. Whatever it is, make sure that they can feel it.