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I love him but i feel like I can't breathe anymore! =(

Why is it hard to let go & set someone free?

It's really hard to let go of the one you love, coz' the chance of

getting back together is 50%-50%. You aren't sure if they're

coming back or not. But then, you're still choosing to let them

go because you love them and you know that they'll be happy in

the path that they have chosen. Whatever their decision maybe,

you'll be happy for them even if you're not a part of their

happiness. That's Love. True & Precious Love. You can sacrifice

your own happiness just to make the one you love happy.


It'll be so hard at first to let go of the person and the

memories you had together but then, you have to think of yourself

too. Holding on to the people who doesn't care enough or doesn't

care at all for you, would just hurt you badly. Everybody deserves

to be happy. Always believe in the old saying, "If you love

someone, set them free. If they comes back, then they're yours to

keep. If they don't, then it's never meant to be." At least try to

heal yourself from the heart break that you've experienced.


Always remember: God has always reserve something better in store for you!


Watch this short presentation & Listen to the song.

Rainy days & Mondays always get me down

Rainy days & Mondays always get me down!

What’s with Rainy days & Mondays that makes me feel down & lonely? Rainy days & Mondays of The Carpenters, seem to have a lot to express. But I won’t discuss about their album. I’m here to write something about what’s with rainy days & Mondays that makes me feel sad & down, in my own words & thoughts.

Rainy days are usually cold. When we say its cold, the heat & warmth is absent. It only goes to say that when it’s cold I need to feel the warmth of those people who loves me and cares for me. But what if there’s no one around me to make me feel the warmth that I want to feel? What if I have no one? This makes me feel miserable, knowing that I could have him at that moment whether it’s rainy day or not, but I just don’t. Only God knows why. This is why most people feel down and blue during this cold days of the year. We Misses the warmth of love & touch of those people we love.

Now, what about Mondays? Mondays isn’t rainy all the time. What’s with Mondays that get me down? It is the fact that I’m starting another week of coldness. Monday is the first day of the week and it gets to say that I’m starting my week with another feeling of emptiness, loneliness and a week without the one I treasure the most. (sigh).

I’m starting to hate the rainy season, not just because I got all wet going to my workplace, but also it gets me to feel the loneliness more as it blew its cold wind.

Letting go, but not giving up!

Most of us people have gone through some difficulties in life which involved break up & separation. And each intimate relationship we had which didn’t work out has a very purpose in it. If same things keep on happening, it only goes to say that we haven’t learned our lessons.

So, what are the lessons we should have learned by now?

Honestly, I don’t really know what lesson you should learn because only You, can identify it.

For me, it is to let go but not to give up.

Letting go in a way that you choose to give them enough time for themselves and other things they have to attend to.

Letting go in a way that you choose to love them from afar to save your self from further hurts and to keep your very own worth.

Letting go in a way that your love & treatment for them won’t change, only the way you used to do things together.

Letting go in a way that you’re letting them to live the life they choose yet keeping your heart & life open when they want to come back.

This may sound crazy because of the martyrdom thing, but it is better to keep the love in your heart in spite of the pain you’re feeling, because in that way you’re also allowing that same person the freedom you will both need in order to move on.

Moving on in a way that both of you will forget, not each other but the pain & not so good experiences in the past. In this way, maybe you both can renewed the love you have for each other and make a new beginning together. But if things get way too messed up and there’s no chance that you could get back in each other’s loving arm, then it’s still okay. At least you did your best and showed that person how much you love them.

Just keep this in mind: God has a better plan for you & He reserved someone that is worthy of your love.

I certainly suggest that you don’t lose hope. Have Faith! Do not lose your faith, in God & in the power of Love. Do not let hate reign. Turn your hate into love. Because Love is a force that renews us and prepares us for tomorrow and Hatred is a shackle that keeps us tied to the past.

Drop the shackles! Walk in Love!

To the person I love most: I love you & it won't change. Only God knows when it's enough to wait for you.

My Own Thought for the Day: If you don't really Love Someone, Don't Play Around.

How will I start with this new post? Hmmm... Oh well, I just wanted to share my own thought for the day: If you don't really Love Someone, Don't F**k*** Play Around!

The person you play around with may have more important things to do than to play around with you. In short, You're just wasting their time. They may have found their future husband/wife, they may have finished school or may have follow some of their dreams, but then... some people are too selfish (playful) and so they end up crying, regretting about the relationship they had with a player and regretful all their lives because their time was wasted.

Just Don't F**k*** Play Around... If you don't love them, Leave them alone. Nobody has the right to hurt anyone's feeling. Remember: What Goes Around, Comes Around & What Goes Up, Must Come Down. Karma Goes Around. It may not hit you right away, but for sure it will someday!

Just a Thought...

What's LOVE for most of us?

For some, It is a feeling of fulfillment. Feeling of being taken care of. Unexplainable feeling which one can say that they have contentment and happiness.

But is this really what LOVE is?

My thoughts about this... LOVE has a right timing of it's own to feel that contentment and happiness. Just like people's lives, it does have it's own ups and downs.

"It can't be asked, It must be given" Not all the time! Most of us are asking for it. If we don't ask for it, we won't have it. We should ask it from God through our prayers and for sure, He won't fail you and give you the love that is just right for you.

"It can't be cheated or else it is betrayed" but why do most people cheat on their love ones? Is it for fun? Is it to see if they are still attractive to others? Whatever their reasons maybe, the good thing about it is that they are still accepted after they cheated (lucky people). God is so good for He created FORGIVENESS. But this can't be happening all the time, coz if it does... Everybody will get to use on cheating everyone.

"It couldn't be bought, it wouldn't be Love" I agree with this one. Love isn't just a candy you can buy anywhere, anytime. You can definitely ask somebody to love you, but it's up to them to decide. You can't pay them cash to love you or show you that they cared. You may give someone everything they needed and wanted but you have to put in mind, that you can't & shouldn't expect anything in return. Coz that Lovin' feeling would be much more appreciated and fulfilling when it comes deep within the heart.

"Love should be cared for or else it will slip away" Everything in this world should be handle with care. Those expensive things you bought for yourself are given an extra special care, what's more if it is the one you love most. Yes, you are caring for them, but sometimes we need to give them an extra special treatment. If the word "spoil" is the correct term for it then be it. But sometimes, the care that we show them are misunderstood. It makes them feel suffocated. An everyday reminder makes them feel like you look at them as a fool. Consistent text messages and calls makes them feel like you don't trust them enough. But it isn't really what you want them to feel. You're just showing them that you care enough for them to stay and love you more.

Well, If you love someone, show it. Tell them and make them feel how much you love them everyday, for you'll never know if it is your last day or their last day on earth. Here are some suggestion on how to show your love or spoil them (These things won't make you a lesser person if you say or do this to someone):


1. Tell them that you love them by saying the three simple words "I LOVE YOU" sure it would mean everything to them.


2. Send them anything that would make them feel you care and make them think that you remember them. Flowers for some girls. Chocolates for every gender (everybody loves chocolate). Balloons, cards, cakes, pastries, any kind of food (as long as they eat those), coffee, tea, frappe, etc... (Anything you know that would make them smile)



3. Send them notes, text messages or email messages. But not just a forwarded messages, It should have something inside that would make them feel special. (sweet talks)


4. Hold and squeeze their hand. It's a simple gesture but sure to tickle their feelings.


5. Hug them. A tight hug would make them feel safe and protected.




6. Kiss them. A kiss on the forehead is not just for your granny. If you kiss someone on the forehead, it'll make them feel that you respect them. A kiss on the cheek is okay but most of us now are doing that with our friends and relatives, so it'll be better if you kiss your special someone differently. A kiss on the lips... This is the most fulfilling kiss you'll ever have. Whether it's a smack, torrid kiss or a french kiss. This kind of kisses brings electricity to the heart and soul. Sometimes, it helps to add more feelings towards the one who gave you that kiss. And it is sweet & memorable too.


7. Do not forget to say Thank you. This way they will feel that you appreciate everything that they are doing from the smallest thing up to something that is out of this world. People stays when they feel appreciated and they become cold and just walk away when they are taken for granted.




We sure to have our own ways of showing our Love. Whatever it is, make sure that they can feel it.