Letting go, but not giving up!

Most of us people have gone through some difficulties in life which involved break up & separation. And each intimate relationship we had which didn’t work out has a very purpose in it. If same things keep on happening, it only goes to say that we haven’t learned our lessons.

So, what are the lessons we should have learned by now?

Honestly, I don’t really know what lesson you should learn because only You, can identify it.

For me, it is to let go but not to give up.

Letting go in a way that you choose to give them enough time for themselves and other things they have to attend to.

Letting go in a way that you choose to love them from afar to save your self from further hurts and to keep your very own worth.

Letting go in a way that your love & treatment for them won’t change, only the way you used to do things together.

Letting go in a way that you’re letting them to live the life they choose yet keeping your heart & life open when they want to come back.

This may sound crazy because of the martyrdom thing, but it is better to keep the love in your heart in spite of the pain you’re feeling, because in that way you’re also allowing that same person the freedom you will both need in order to move on.

Moving on in a way that both of you will forget, not each other but the pain & not so good experiences in the past. In this way, maybe you both can renewed the love you have for each other and make a new beginning together. But if things get way too messed up and there’s no chance that you could get back in each other’s loving arm, then it’s still okay. At least you did your best and showed that person how much you love them.

Just keep this in mind: God has a better plan for you & He reserved someone that is worthy of your love.

I certainly suggest that you don’t lose hope. Have Faith! Do not lose your faith, in God & in the power of Love. Do not let hate reign. Turn your hate into love. Because Love is a force that renews us and prepares us for tomorrow and Hatred is a shackle that keeps us tied to the past.

Drop the shackles! Walk in Love!

To the person I love most: I love you & it won't change. Only God knows when it's enough to wait for you.